If they have lived together for two weeks and this is happening, it’s probably best that they part ways.
- @kkott My dad gave me and my roommate pepper spray before my freshman year at IU! I think I carried it when I walked at night for about a week. Lol
@zeke4ahs Thought I'd said this in a post, but maybe deleted it. But, I keep pepper spray in my car and desk at work where I'm often the only one in the office, and bought it for all the important women in my life a few years ago. Ironically I'd guess I'm the only one that knows where theirs is at this point.
If I go to a pool party, come home and get sprayed, you better believe I'm going to defend myself.
I don't condone violence, but there comes a time where one has to defend themselves. This would fall into one of those times.
If that's what happened.
If so, then the girlfriend should still be under charges of assault, right?
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Hope the young man has a mom or dad, aunt or uncle, to give some life advice regarding his current situation and his future.

I know that.If that's what happened.
If so, then the girlfriend should still be under charges of assault, right?
Both were arrested.
Both were released without charges.
If the girl pepper sprayed without cause, i.e. fear, she shouldn't be off the hook. If she did have fear, well then.
So I said 'if that's what happened" to the defending himself position.
@openwheel I'm not in LE, but I'd imagine they're dropping a case like this if both parties agree to that and aren't going to testify, and probably what happened. I'd guess there are 2 different stories about what led up to the pepper spray and both are probably just wanting to drop it at this point. Fine with whatever the staff does here.